ARGGGGGGGHHHHHHHH

Don't you just hate when someone ELSE does something rude and mean to you, and THEN takes the attitude of being the injured party?

Some times it's completely exhausting - anticipation, fear, worry. And other times it's simply a matter of taking a couple of deep breathes, realizing it's not really directed at me - and then I can deal with it just fine.

It's also helps to stop and count all the fantastic things that are going RIGHT in my life.